I haven't really blogged for some time ,its been a few months. I can point out why , I blog when i think and conclude. When emotions run high , you don't think, you just want to let go , of tears and smiles at the same time. Science says now that if you don't cry once in a while your tear glands wont work properly, changing the Ph Value of your eyes and will alter the moisture dynamics. so all said and done , being sad and tearful as important as being happy and chirpy ....
First thought is the word "Hope" and Hopeless, Hope builds expectations and expectations drives actions and desires, such actions therefore form a borrowed skeleton of what happiness would look like . 90% of all our problems are because of hope. Hope that i am happier, healthier , richer and more loved. Of the first few books on spirituality I read, one was by Osho . It had an interesting tale, about a Guru and his disciple. He asked the master if he could change destiny. The Guru asked the disciple to draw a line of the mud and said if this was the richest and happiest man in world, i will show how I change it. he just drew a longer line and said now the rich man is poorer ......and then drew a smaller line as well ....and said but the rich man is still better off ....Life is relative and all based on Hope.
If I need to get out of where i am , I need to conquer .....Hope...... and the fear of Hopelessness.
Second , on Mukti , who is free ?
Immature people falling in love destroy each other's freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.
Remember, freedom is a higher value than love. That's why in India, the ultimate we call MOKSHA; MOKSHA means freedom. Freedom is a higher value than love. So if love is destroying freedom, it is not of worth. Love can be dropped; freedom has to be saved: freedom is a higher value. And without freedom you can never be happy -- that is not possible. Freedom is the intrinsic desire of each man, each woman -- utter freedom, absolute freedom. So anything that becomes destructive to freedom -- one starts hating it.
At Times ,Don't you hate the man you love? At times, Don't you hate the woman you love? You hate. It is a necessary evil; you have to tolerate it. Because you cannot be alone you have to manage to be with somebody, and you have to adjust to the other's demands. You have to tolerate, you have to bear them.
Love, to be really love, has to be 'being-love', 'gift-love'. 'Being-love' means a state of love. When you have arrived home, when you have known who you are, then a love arises in your being. Then the fragrance spreads and you can give it to others. How can you give something which you don't have? To give it, the first basic requirement is to have it.
Anyway, we still Look for the BOND OF LOVE , what........???
चुप रहता था ...क्या करता ...वोह तन्हा था , क्या करता ....उसकी कोई पहचान नहीं ...शहर नया था क्या करता ....
Aaj kee Ghazal
हाल ऐ दिल सबसे छुपाने मज़ा आता है ....आप पूछे तो बताने में मज़ा आता है ...
जिसके कुछ तार उलझ जाते हैं दिल की सूरत ...बस उसी साज़ पे गाने में मज़ा आता है ..
जान बचाने का तस्सुवुर भी बुरा लगता है ....इश्क में जान गवाने में मज़ा आता है ....
याद कर करके वोह गर्मी की भरी दोपहरें ..पहली बारिश में नहाने में मज़ा आता है ....
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