Does this term ring a bell, this was the only TV program in the late 80s , which covered Global News , It was the "60 Mins" of Doordarshan, reminds me of a time gone bye.
The world this week for me has been a revelation of sorts . Possibly the week of startling realizations, introspection, despair , anguish , feeling of extreme anger and above all discontentment with law of karma . My last 2 posts have been expressive enough to say that some events of destiny have left my soul badly bruised. This was the week that destiny turned around and replied . It isn't the way you think it is .
In short, if you have adored someone the best you can and they decide to cheat, malign and demean you, That's their way , Thats it...... That isnt the way you should respond back though . It is proven to me that Trust as a concept is diminishing. We treat each other no different to how the African animals treat each other in jungle. Pounce and prey when weak and alone. In next 10 years, it will be difficult to prove the concept of trust to people. Is trust an integral part of our persona or is trust just an acquired skill. Is this a social conditioning issue or a critical part of social fiber ? I often think of this . This is not the first time someone I trusted has let me down. I would like to think that I am open and large hearted. Since schooling , I have trusted multiple people who have let me down at a critical juncture of my life but have i changed ? I haven't at all, on the contrary i have trusted more people than before. If this is an art that I must be born with it. Trust comes naturally to me , i must confess . So what lesson do i learn ? Should i become worldly wise and mistrust every single person who i meet in the journey of life .
Birth Certificate shows we were born,A Death Certificate shows we died,Pictures show we lived!I Believe... Just because two people argue, Doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, Doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe.... No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt You every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe... Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry, But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe... Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had And what you've learned from them, and less to do With how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe... Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, But we are responsible for who we become.
I Believe... It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others; Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself..
I Believe.... No matter how bad your heart is broken, The world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe... Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I Believe... Two people can look at the exact same Thing and see something totally different..
You don't have to bite a dog back ....
So ...I even doubt you were even a good friend ....whatever it was .......Hope you live with your "Value system" ...all these abuses and curses show you are so insecure and shallow inside ....the mirage of "Jaanajee" is gone ..
(I have no ego in doing whatever it takes to make my beloved happy )
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere,Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Dilbar tooñ dil sadqay keeta, dilbar de kamm aave, Jaan jandi te jaan deyo meri yaar valooñ reh aave
(I hope my emotions and love , inspire him/her someday , even if it means giving my life)
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Na kar maan rappiye wala, van van behna vagge
Khara khota tu par kiya janve, panveeñ saraf de agge
Bolo poora te tolo poora, satt sirre te na lagge
Bhulla to kaudi ho ja, watta munh na lagge
The world this week for me has been a revelation of sorts . Possibly the week of startling realizations, introspection, despair , anguish , feeling of extreme anger and above all discontentment with law of karma . My last 2 posts have been expressive enough to say that some events of destiny have left my soul badly bruised. This was the week that destiny turned around and replied . It isn't the way you think it is .
In short, if you have adored someone the best you can and they decide to cheat, malign and demean you, That's their way , Thats it...... That isnt the way you should respond back though . It is proven to me that Trust as a concept is diminishing. We treat each other no different to how the African animals treat each other in jungle. Pounce and prey when weak and alone. In next 10 years, it will be difficult to prove the concept of trust to people. Is trust an integral part of our persona or is trust just an acquired skill. Is this a social conditioning issue or a critical part of social fiber ? I often think of this . This is not the first time someone I trusted has let me down. I would like to think that I am open and large hearted. Since schooling , I have trusted multiple people who have let me down at a critical juncture of my life but have i changed ? I haven't at all, on the contrary i have trusted more people than before. If this is an art that I must be born with it. Trust comes naturally to me , i must confess . So what lesson do i learn ? Should i become worldly wise and mistrust every single person who i meet in the journey of life .
Birth Certificate shows we were born,A Death Certificate shows we died,Pictures show we lived!I Believe... Just because two people argue, Doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, Doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe.... No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt You every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I Believe... Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry, But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I Believe... Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had And what you've learned from them, and less to do With how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe... Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, But we are responsible for who we become.
I Believe... It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others; Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself..
I Believe.... No matter how bad your heart is broken, The world doesn't stop for your grief.
I Believe... Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I Believe... Two people can look at the exact same Thing and see something totally different..
You don't have to bite a dog back ....
So ...I even doubt you were even a good friend ....whatever it was .......Hope you live with your "Value system" ...all these abuses and curses show you are so insecure and shallow inside ....the mirage of "Jaanajee" is gone ..
I will still be the same , even more determined on my beliefs , will still trys people blindly and love them selflessly. There may be some new friends on the way ....
I have put together meaning of a punjabi folk song here ...it fits in to the mood of the week ..The rendition by Noora Sisters is soul stirring ...just watch the passion of describing true and selfless love and in life we are worried about looks , houses, money , whats-app , stories and all the bull ....
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
(I have made a small Hut on your wayside, just have a look some days , Kulli is a humble hut )
Hatt mullah menu rok na menu mathay tilak lagawan de
Mathay tilak laga ke oh menu ghar kanjraN de jawan de
Kanjri banyañ izzat na ghatdi, nach ke yaar manawan de
I have put together meaning of a punjabi folk song here ...it fits in to the mood of the week ..The rendition by Noora Sisters is soul stirring ...just watch the passion of describing true and selfless love and in life we are worried about looks , houses, money , whats-app , stories and all the bull ....
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
(I have made a small Hut on your wayside, just have a look some days , Kulli is a humble hut )
Hatt mullah menu rok na menu mathay tilak lagawan de
Mathay tilak laga ke oh menu ghar kanjraN de jawan de
Kanjri banyañ izzat na ghatdi, nach ke yaar manawan de
(I have no ego in doing whatever it takes to make my beloved happy )
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere,Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Dilbar tooñ dil sadqay keeta, dilbar de kamm aave, Jaan jandi te jaan deyo meri yaar valooñ reh aave
(I hope my emotions and love , inspire him/her someday , even if it means giving my life)
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Na kar maan rappiye wala, van van behna vagge
Khara khota tu par kiya janve, panveeñ saraf de agge
Bolo poora te tolo poora, satt sirre te na lagge
Bhulla to kaudi ho ja, watta munh na lagge
(Dont be proud of money or status , it will all wash away one day , you are gold and your jeweler is lord, how pure you are , will be known one day, do right say right , let success not get in your head . prepare to bow down to love , selfless love )
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Kulli rah vich pai asañ tere, Te aanda janda takda rahveeñ
Bye Jaanajee ...
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