My Posts are usually my narrative on topics I feel strongly about , Today's post is in a slightly different format . I have realized that some conversations are just serendipitous , you don't expect some questions to come your way , you don't plan those answers, you however manage some unexpected answers . In giving those answers , you realize that you have stumbled upon and verbalized a de-fragmented set of thoughts and conclusions inside you . I thought , it will be worth my while noting down such conversations. The Transcription of the conversation is not precise yet more or less in same words and spirit.
Why are my friends, family and colleagues not able to see my point of view ?
They wont sometimes , they cant . Point of views are our manifestations of our convictions. Our thoughts , our emotions and convictions are in constant evolution . Our evolutions are a function of our desire to evolve and our efforts to evolve . Let me share an incident with you . I used to work as Technician with a Sanyo Service Centre in Melbourne in 1996 . As all Indians initially are , I was awe stuck by the ease of life and unfamiliar ways of Victorian society. As a part of my role , on a daily Basis, I used to visit customer premises to repair equipment . One of my regular customers was a High end Art Gallery on Toorak Road . The Art gallery had everything classy and expensive about it . Every corner of that place was evidence was it was painstakingly created with lots of passion and effort. I used to often wonder who buys a painting which is twice the cost of a Toyota Camry. The cheapest painting they sold was 30000 Dollars . One day , I gathered the courage to ask the owner as to why these paintings were expensive and why did people even pay that money . She smiled and said , let me explain this to you over a coffee. We sat in her office and she asked me if I was a fan of any art form . I replied swiftly, "Music" . She said , how many tracks you know of the kind of music you love. I said quickly a few thousand may be. She said once you have all the time and money in life , there will come a time, when you will love the emotion behind some of the songs, the poetry, the melody more than anything else. Truth be told, I didn't understand what she said then . She went on to say , normal people see a few colours , as you evolve a few more colours and with each passing day in depth , you will see more colours . I relate to those answers now . The colours you see, the poetry you comprehend is not what you can expect everyone to understand .
You know why the expression of Fall and Rise is used , it is believed that Heaven is sky and hell is below ground in mythology . Heaven is not the physical high , its just a metaphorical high . Live with the fact that everyone has their own depth and own convictions . The more you evolve the more solitude you should expect , even the perceived "close" ones , wont be able to see the "colours" . This is an inevitable reality .
कुछ इस तरह का सौदा किया वक़्त ने मुझसे ....तजुर्बे दे कर मेरी नादानी छीन ली मुझसे
The Bridge of Consciousness starts at the Ego end, lands at the selfless end, starts at a social end and lands in solitude......
Why do I find people brutally "practical" and untrustworthy ?
Before you even understand that , lets discuss why we need to trust , we need to trust because we cant not always be on guard, we need to have people who we have no "guards" with, no fear of hurt, a sense of protection and an always seek a fellow traveller . A state of lowered guard also exposes your fault lines to people you place your trust in. That's where the story gets murkier . There is a huge fallacy being propagated in the society that the more self centred and self focused you are , the more successful you will become . Nothing could be further from truth ,
आदमी का सबसे अच्छा आविष्कार है, डिवाइडर , तुम उस तरफ चलो, मैं इस तरफ चलूँगा !
You know why the expression of Fall and Rise is used , it is believed that Heaven is sky and hell is below ground in mythology . Heaven is not the physical high , its just a metaphorical high . Live with the fact that everyone has their own depth and own convictions . The more you evolve the more solitude you should expect , even the perceived "close" ones , wont be able to see the "colours" . This is an inevitable reality .
कुछ इस तरह का सौदा किया वक़्त ने मुझसे ....तजुर्बे दे कर मेरी नादानी छीन ली मुझसे
The Bridge of Consciousness starts at the Ego end, lands at the selfless end, starts at a social end and lands in solitude......
Why do I find people brutally "practical" and untrustworthy ?
Before you even understand that , lets discuss why we need to trust , we need to trust because we cant not always be on guard, we need to have people who we have no "guards" with, no fear of hurt, a sense of protection and an always seek a fellow traveller . A state of lowered guard also exposes your fault lines to people you place your trust in. That's where the story gets murkier . There is a huge fallacy being propagated in the society that the more self centred and self focused you are , the more successful you will become . Nothing could be further from truth ,
आदमी का सबसे अच्छा आविष्कार है, डिवाइडर , तुम उस तरफ चलो, मैं इस तरफ चलूँगा !
In Urdu, there is a word called Tufail, which means beneficiary. We want to become beneficiaries of everything , good weather , good roads , rule of law but what do we want to give or sacrifice , Nothing . We are not prepared for sacrifices , you don't wish to give away , emotions , things , possessions and time, affection , the works. Whatever we have is for us and whatever others have also ought to be with us . I see lots of social media posts each day , pictures with poses and pouts . You know why this phenomenon is dangerous is because our need to seek "Gratification" is increasing each day . People Must gratify and rave about you , your looks , your things , your house , you partner , your kids scores and the works .This thirst of gratification is insatiable . People who seek self gratifications are difficult to trust and love as the gratification cant last forever . Make it clear , no one is seeking innocence . People are seeking moments , moments of gratification (in a pub, over a dinner or in a holiday ) , people are seeking excitement and thrill (in parties , with loud music , in adventure sport ).
गुफ्तगू का आग़ाज़...ख़्वाबों की रजाई ...पलकें क्यूँ बुन लेती हैं ...आखों में तन्हाई...
गुफ्तगू का आग़ाज़...ख़्वाबों की रजाई ...पलकें क्यूँ बुन लेती हैं ...आखों में तन्हाई...
Excitement will fade , a divine connect will not. You will be able to see through make up . You have to see people evolving . Technology is not helping as much as we think it is , we have all"messengers" but no "message" . People who have a conviction that emotions play an important part n decision making will always be trustworthy .
जज़्बात में दिखावे की दोस्ती न मिला, अगर दिल नहीं मिलता तो हाथ भी न मिला
People are running a hurdle race , don't run with them to grab more materials and moments , let them run . Keep Trusting and trust a lot , make them angels and place them on the highest pedestal . Nothing rules mankind more than emotions. From the pinnacle of the pedestal , if they cant see your humility and depth , let them be . Some angels are not to be , some are fallen angels .........
जज़्बात में दिखावे की दोस्ती न मिला, अगर दिल नहीं मिलता तो हाथ भी न मिला
People are running a hurdle race , don't run with them to grab more materials and moments , let them run . Keep Trusting and trust a lot , make them angels and place them on the highest pedestal . Nothing rules mankind more than emotions. From the pinnacle of the pedestal , if they cant see your humility and depth , let them be . Some angels are not to be , some are fallen angels .........
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